Saturday, August 9, 2008

Nobody cares!

In today's world, the rich are getting richer and poor becoming poorer. But there is no space for sympathy or even empathy. People just keep moving blindly forward without giving a damn about what's happening around them. I bet you and even me would think twice before helping someone in need. I saw an article in the local news paper which showed the sad plight of a 10th standard kid and his suffering family. I normally read right through these pages so as to get to the sports or entertainment column .But, I don’t know why, i just stopped and read the complete article. I was very moved by it and decided to send some much needed cash (whatever I can afford).I talked to my friend who a social worker was trying to get her to talk to her roommates as I thought help from any quarter was to be taken. While she was telling explaining the story to them, they all crowded around her .But as the story unfolded, they began to lose interest. Comments like," These kinds of stories come in news everyday. How can you help all of them?” Even though she has had heard enough, as loyal a friend she was, my friend asked them again if they will lend help. Silence! She later told me that she felt embarrassed by non- responsiveness. I think it should have been the other way around.
She always sees the glass half full than half empty and says everybody has their own opinion about these things and we should respect it. I am not a Buddhist and do not take things like these too kindly.
I was not ready to give up. Rang up dad. Talked to him. First thing he said was,"Give me the address the money has to be sent" .It may sound dramatic but I truly feel blessed to have a family who always stands by me no matter what.

Later, when I went to office, I thought of letting my team mates know of the matter. After all, they are rich folk who like most of their IT counterparts spent large chunks of money on meaningless things .So, I sent across a mail to my teammates which go like this...

Hey Guys,

This is a heart touching story I read in today’s paper. It’s about the sad plight of family of two brothers both of who are woodcutters.
5 years ago, the elder brother had an accident .While cutting a tree, the roots gave way and the tree fell on him .He was paralyzed .He is unmarried. The younger brother who has wife and 2 kids had to take the burden of the family on his shoulders. Two months ago, disaster again struck. While cutting a tree branch he slipped and fell breaking his back. He too is bed ridden .His elder son who is in 10th standard works in order to support his family. He cannot even manage to get enough money to buy medicines .Even though the school he studied in offered him free education he cannot continue as he needs to support the family. His mother is unable to go outside the house as her husband and brother need help for everything .They even need assistance in doing their basic body functions. A committee has been set up by good hearted people living near by. They are expecting assistance of any kind for the suffering family
This is a terrible story and I was really moved by the plight of the family. I have decided to sent in some help .I thought I would let you know of this as you can also pitch in as this is for a good cause. Doesn’t matter if you are not interested in doing any monetary aid. A prayer or two would do.

Vivek


After getting the mail there was absolutely no response from the team. I was becoming embarrassed now.

Then came a mail from one of the guys!
It was a one liner - "Sure will do it ….!"

I was delighted .At least some one cares. He was sitting near me. So I went to him and said-"So you will really help eh?” His reply proved to be the final nail in the coffin-

“Yes dude.....I will definitely... pray.”

1 comment:

might be said...

Very true!! nobody cares...they will care if they hav time out of caring themselves....

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